PART 3: Getting WHERE You Want To Go

Stop Sabotaging Your Own Success!

We talk a lot about the things we want. I want more money. I want a better relationships. I want to raise good, responsible children. I want a promotion. I want a better job. I want to be healthier. I want to be smarter. I want to retire. I want my finances in order. I want! I want! I want!

But do you know what you really want? You think you know what you want in life and you’ve tried to achieve those things. But if you still don’t have them, the culprit may be closer than you think. The true is what you want you’ve already got! —and you’re sabotaging your own success.

Michael Kissinger exposes the things you are doing right now to unknowingly prevent your own success in the most important areas of your life: business, family, health, parenting, money and more — and offers you this proven action plan and solutions for change. You’ll learn about:

The only success rules you’ll ever need

How to eliminate failure and stress once and for all

The ways you’re sabotaging yourself right now

Surprising ways to get more done at home and at work

The bad-habit-breaking tricks that will change your life instantly

Simple steps to making fast improvements in your all areas of your life

And a whole lot more!

By following these straightforward, commonsense messages we present in this program, you’ll be able to remove the one and only obstacle standing between you and the things you really want in life: YOU. 

If you’re ready to make some real, lasting changes using simple solutions that WORK, these no-holds-barred style and radically un-radical process are what you’ve been waiting for!

To Get Where You Want to Go You Have to Get the Right Context

Are you wondering…

Where am I going in life? Where am I supposed to be going in life? And to answer your questions, here’s what USF taught me. There are three ingredients to the good life – learning, earning and yearning. What it takes to get them is hard work, study and application.

Are you asking… [1]: Where Am I Going?

Is It the Right Direction to Get Where I Want to Go?

There are many times in life where one does not know what comes next or where to go in life. The realization that you are lost and don’t know where to go, or that you don’t like where you are going often comes as an epiphany.

Most people describe this as being in a rut. It’s like you have everything you want and still so much is missing. You could have everything in the world but something about your life still doesn’t feel right.

[2]: What are the Signs I Need to Change Direction to Get Where You Want to Go

It is important to identify when you are unhappy with your life and want to change where you are going. Some of the most common signs of needing a change in life are as follows:

  1. You feel unhappy with your life and often reminiscence about the choices you made.
  2. You feel as if you are forced to go against your morals and intuition at work or home.
  3. The situation that you find yourself in currently is causing you a lot of stress.
  4. There is a fear or dread of the future and the consequences of your life decisions that have been causing you anxiety.
  5. You feel like you had to give up on your passions and interests just to make it in this world.
  6. The future that you are currently envisioning seems nothing like what practically lies ahead.
  7. You find yourself surrounded by unhappy people who often think you’re too idealistic.
  8. You often look forward to having a ‘good day’ even when nothing is particularly wrong with the days right now.

If you feel like most of these signs apply to you, then it’s time to re-evaluate where you are headed in life and how you want to change that.

[3]: There are Three Ingredients to to Get Where You Want to Go – Learning, Earning and Yearning when Shaping Your Destiny

Before learning how to choose the right direction for yourself, first try to understand the 3 key phases of life:

Phase [1]: The Learning Phase

The Learning phase typically stretches from the age of five into the early twenties and its over-riding characteristic is freedom.

Your thinking is unfettered, you are chock-full of dreams and aspirations and (happily) someone else is footing the bills. It’s not a cliché to say that schooldays, for many of us, really were the happiest days of our lives.

Contrast it with adult life – no one expects very much of you, and other than passing a few exams along the way and you can just swing along, having a great old time …

Phase [2]: The Earning Phase

The next phase is the Earning years; the period from leaving formal education (at 20-something) to retirement (at 50-something or 60-something). Welcome to the grown-up world, welcome to the tax net.

The overriding concern in this Earning phase is the security (I spell that word as follows: $ecurity because, for many people, this phase tends to be all about generating sufficient income to pay the monthly bills.)

Reality bites. This can require sublimating the dreams of youth as a life of routine takes over. Few in the Earning years question the choices they have made because, typically, this questioning process can be quite disconcerting – oddly, I find this is particularly true of people who are less than happy with their working lives.

Phase [3]: The Yearning Phase

What is yearning? Unfortunately, yearning is not the same as simple hankering, wanting or desire. The dictionary definition of yearning is:

“A feeling of intense longing for something lost, absent or unattainable.”

A bit gloomy. So for many people, the Yearning years are about looking back over a life not quite fulfilled and saying ‘I wish, I wish. If only … if only …’

With the wisdom of years comes regret for the road not taken, the too-conservative choices made.

Studies conducted in the geriatric population and on terminally ill people consistently demonstrate that regrets in human beings arise as a result of decisions not taken. The wise old owls that I have talked to over the years all speak with one voice on this.

It is better to look back and think, ‘I wish I hadn’t …’ rather than wistfully saying, ‘I wish I had …’

Think about where you are…

As you think about your career, your life, and your plans for the future, you are, at the very least, going to have to contemplate some uncomfortable choices about yourself, your personal style and your level of happiness.

I make no apologies for this – that’s just life. But I contend that it is better to take the time and spend the effort now to improve the choices that you make for later, rather than to have those choices made for you at a time that may not suit you.

Some people get these choices unerringly right and they do so early in their lives. Others come to a realization of the right path much later in life. Ray Kroc changed his whole approach to his McDonald’s business in his early 50s.  Colonel Sanders didn’t start his KFC franchising efforts until he was in his early 60s. And the list can go on.

What Is Missing in My Life?

Do you know what’s missing in your life that holds you back from living life to the fullest? Take the Life Assessment for FREE and find out what aspects of life require your immediate attention, and what you need in order to live the life you want.

It’s never too early and it’s never too late – but you have to think about it.

Choose the Right Path to Get Where You Want to Go

Do you know at what phase of life are you now? Once you understand where you are now, the next step is to find the direction you want to move to.

You have the motivation and direction to take your life where you need it to be, you just need to get up and do it. The best time for change is now, and if you procrastinate any further you might miss out on a great opportunity.

To live a meaningful life, it is important to pick a direction that brings both peace and success. Here are some things to take into consideration when choosing a new direction in life:

1. Chose What Your Inner Child Would Want

It is very important to acknowledge the needs and opinions of our ‘inner child’. That’s because we often have real happiness at this age and develop passions that last us a lifetime. To calibrate your direction in life, think of what the younger you would feel about your current situation and what would they want to do.

2. Think About The Things You Want To Change

Make a list of the things in your current life that you are dissatisfied with and want to change. Then think of the alternative options you have to give yourself a life where you find happiness and fulfillment by avoiding these things. This will help you understand what must be done to feel good in life.

3. Find Inspiration to Follow

Everyone has an idea of what they want in life and finding inspiration isn’t hard in this day and age. Just think about those you admire and see as role models and try to follow in their footsteps. As they have already reached a place you associate to be a goal, you will find it easier to navigate your way through life to reach that destination as well.

4. Be Clear on What You Don’t Want To Be

To find out where you want to be headed in life, try finding out where you don’t want to end up. This would help identify situations and placed you would try and avoid at all costs. It keeps you on the right track because if you minimize the wrong paths, then choosing the right one becomes much easier.

5. Learn to Enjoy Where You Are

There is no such thing as a perfect life. What you need to learn, is to work hard and to find things to be happy and grateful for.

Live in the moment, appreciate the things you have. Only this way you will see clearly the meaning of your life.

6. Commit to Getting or Staying Healthy

Nothing is more important than your mental, spiritual and physical health.

Getting your life on the right path isn’t something you can achieve in a day. But, with hard work and dedication, you will get there!

7. Help Others

By helping others you will increase your sense of purpose and improve self-esteem. There are many ways to do this. Volunteer in your community, mentor young people, or just help neighbors. You will be surprised by the feeling you will have after. How to know the right path ~ Abraham Hicks 2019

[1]: You Can Get Where You Want to Go with Spiritual Philosophy

The Power of I-Am : The 2 Most Powerful Biblical Words! is simple, profound wisdom. It beautifully encapsulates lessons from the masters throughout the ages. An endless source of knowledge from philosophers, spiritual thinkers, poets, historians, scientists and leaders. This thought provoking book will inspire readers of all ages.  The Power of I-Am : The 2 Most Powerful Words!

Did Jesus really exist? Who was he really? Here I explore actual historical writings about who Jesus was. We explore Neville’s perspective and I include an amazing recording from a lecture by Alan Watts on this subject. Was Jesus a historical figure or is the real truth that Jesus is within us all? Who was Jesus Christ? Who Really Was Jesus Christ? The Entire Bible (66 books) Audio

The Fundamental Sin

We are told in scripture that the fundamental sin in the world is man’s lack of faith in I am he. If you want the quote, it’s the 8th chapter of the Book of John. You’ll find it confirmed in the 16th of John: “You will die in your sins unless you believe I am he.”

You can take that literally. You may believe in this presence before you know from experience I am he. You don’t have to wait for the experience when it’s revealed to you by actual experience that you are the very being that conceived it all and played it all. You don’t have to wait to that extreme; you can start believing it now and prove it.

The day will come you will know from experience I am he. So that’s the fundamental sin. Sin means “missing the mark.” If you do not believe that I am the one that I would like to be, then you will miss the mark. You must dare to assume that I am the man or the woman that I want to be, so that I stop wanting to be it because I am it.

If I am it, then I will sleep in that state and view the world from it as though it were true. If I view the world from that state, I am putting this claim to a test, and I tell you from experience it will become a fact in your world. Start to believe it before you actually know it from experience, but the day will come you will know it from experience. Neville Goddard The Fundamental Sin

The 12 Powers of Man

The Twelve Powers of Man is a metaphysical look at twelve expressions of the divine power inherent in each of us. Expressions such as love, faith, strength, zeal, and imagination are discussed. JESUS prophesied the advent of a race of men who would sit with Him on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel.

This book explains the meaning of this mystical reference, what and where the twelve thrones are, and what attainments are necessary by man before he can follow Jesus in this phase of his regeneration. Regeneration follows generation in the development of man. Generation sustains and perpetuates the human; regeneration unfolds and glorifies the divine.

It is not expected that beginners in the study of metaphysical Christianity will understand this book. It deals with forces that function below and above the field of the conscious mind.

The average religious thinker knows nothing about the subconscious mind and very little about the superconscious; this book presupposes a working knowledge of both. This book aims to clear up the mystery that ever envelops the advent, life, and death of Jesus. To the superficial reader of the Gospels His life was a tragedy and, so far as concerns the kingly reign that was prophesied, it was a failure. Yet those who understand the subtlety of the soul and supremacy of Spirit see that Jesus was conqueror of a psychic force that was destroying the human race. The 12 Powers of Man, Charles Fillmore

Your Prosperity Begins with You when Shaping Your Destiny

Where does your prosperity begin? Does it begin with the economy, with your family, your upbringing? Where does it begin? There is a great idea that you will encounter again and again on your quest: you are a living magnet, constantly drawing to you the things, the people, and the circumstances which are in accord with your thoughts.

In other words, you are where you are in experience, in relationships, even in financial conditions, because of what you are (which is where you are in consciousness). Now, this is not an easy teaching. You may want to reject it and put the book aside.

In the Bible, when Jesus began to lay out the hard laws of his teaching, it says, “Many of his disciples drew back and no longer went about with him” (Jn. 6:66). And thus it has always been.

However, if you are willing to accept full responsibility for your life, then even as your level of thought has put you where you are (or at least contributed to it), so by a change of consciousness, you can change the experiences of your life.

This would seem not to apply in the case of the nation’s economy and its influence on your personal prosperity. Certainly there are broad differences of opinion among the world’s economists. However, we can be certain of one thing: by reason of the law of sequence and consequence, every cycle had to start somewhere.

It is likely that someone or some group of persons set forth a strongly felt belief which spread like fire and swept across the country, having a measurable influence upon consumer buying, the job market, the inflationary spiral, and on the performance of the stock market. One thing which economists do agree upon is that business conditions always tend to reflect the level of confidence of the people.

On a more personal level, your own prosperity or lack of it will also reflect the level of your thinking. There is just no way around it: your fortune (good or bad) begins with you.

Financial crises, even recessions or depressions, so far as they affect your pocketbook or bank account or job stability, begin with your reactions of faith or fear. You do not cause economic conditions, though we all share in the cumulative consciousness that is the cause; but if you give them reality by your negative thoughts or conversations about them, you become synchronized with an energy flow which has as swift an influence on your life as the light that bathes the room when you throw the switch.

You do not make the light, but in a very real sense, it becomes real in your experience by reason of your act of turning it on. Someone could say, “You are fortunate to have light in your room.” But your fortune begins with you. Your Prosperity Begins With You

[2]: You Can to Get Where You Want to Go with Worldly Philosophy

Philosophy is the systematized study of general and fundamental questions, such as those about existence, reason, knowledge, values, mind, and language. Such questions are often posed as problems to be studied or resolved. Some sources claim the term was coined by Pythagoras (c. 570 – c. 495 BCE); others dispute this story, arguing that Pythagoreans merely claimed use of a preexisting term. Wikipedia

Philosophy is the study of the fundamental nature of knowledge, reality, and existence, especially when considered as an academic discipline.

After reading all this, you are surely ready to change the direction of your life. Start by making a change today instead of just thinking about it. Every difficult journey starts with a single step, and this is the sign to take yours. Once you make one change, the rest follow suit and soon your life will be exactly how you want it to be.

[A]: You Can Get Where You Want to Go with Power of the Secret

It has been passed down through the ages, highly coveted, hidden, lost, stolen, and bought for vast sums of money. Fragments of this Great Secret have been found in the oral traditions, in literature, in religions and philosophies throughout the centuries. It has been understood by some of the most prominent people in history: Plato, Galileo, Beethoven, Edison, Carnegie, and Einstein, along with other renowned inventors, theologians, scientists, and great thinkers.

I discovered the Secret, and I learned how to have, do, or be anything I want. I learned how to use the Secret in every area of my life. I heard from modern-day teachers – men and women who have used the Secret to achieve health, prosperity, relationships, and happiness. I heard their incredible stories of using the Secret to eradicate disease, acquire massive wealth, overcome obstacles, and achieve what many would regard as impossible. Through them, I begin to understand the hidden, untapped power that is within you, and the true magnificence that awaits you. The Secret

[B]: You Can Get Where You Want to Go with Power of The Kybalion

I learned The Kybalion: A Study of the Hermetic Philosophy of Ancient Egypt and Greece was originally published under the pen name, Three Initiates, in 1908. It claims to have been based on the philosophy of Hermeticism, which became influential to the development of the New Age of Thought in the early 1900s. It is very similar to the advice offered by the Book of Proverbs in the Bible. The Kybalion (1908) by Three Initiates

I explored the seven principles centered around mentalism, correspondence, vibration, polarity, rhythm, causation and effect, and gender. Hermeticism affirms a single theological thought present in all religious beliefs and granted by God in the beginning of time. It has influenced everything from modern Romanticism to liberal Christianity. These scripts were written over a longer period (c. 300 BCE – 1200 CE). Hermetic Principles and Laws

[3]: You Can to Get Where I Want to Go by Applying Both WORDLY and SPIRITUAL PHILOSOPHY

[A]: You Can Get Where You Want to Go, IF, You Find It Within

It is my hope that this will meet the needs of those who have grown with me in spiritual understanding, in awareness of the height and depth of God’s love, and in realization of man’s Oneness with Him; and that those who are taking their first steps on this joyous journey will find through it the Wisdom whose ways are ways of pleasantness and all whose paths are peace. Robert A. Russell You Can Get what you Want, IF, You Find it Within Yourself

[B]: You Can Get Where You Want to Go Using Wattles Science of How to Get What You Want!!!

“There is something in the man who succeeds, which enables him to use his faculties successfully, and this something must be cultivated by all who succeed. The question is: What is it?”  —Wallace D. Wattles, in How to Get What You Want, 1907

In How to Get What You Want, we explains in a short but practical way what the factors for success are, and how anyone can develop and attain it in their life. Success is not what other people may think you should achieve, but it is getting what you want, whether it is health, wealth, or a position in life.

According to Wattles, the key to success lies in the person who succeeds, and not in external circumstances. This pamphlet offers the reader a shot in the arm and inspires, just as Wattles inspired Rhonda Byrne to create the successful film The Secret in 2006. HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT!!!

[C]: You Can to Get Where You Want to Go Using How To Get What You Want

Is there something you want? A new job, better health, a new relationship? Orison Swett Marden discusses this in his book How To Get What You Want.

This writing discusses common-sense principles and virtues that make for a well-rounded, successful life. Marden believed that our thoughts influence our lives and our life circumstances. “We make the world we live in and shape our own environment.” “The golden opportunity you are seeking is in yourself. It is not in your environment; it is not in luck or chance, or the help of others; it is in yourself alone.”

He expounded upon many of the virtues that make up success, such as self-reliance, perseverance, and hard work. His writings breathe a spirit of “lofty austerity” and focus on themes of adversity and triumph, defeat and victory, failure and success.” Orison Swett Marden – How To Get What You Want

[D]: You Can Get Where You Want to Go Using the Master Key System

The Master Key System is a personal development book that was originally published as a correspondence course in 1912. Along with “The Science of Getting Rich”, by Wallace D. Wattles, the Master Key System is the source of Rhonda Byrne’s inspiration for the book and the film “The Secret”. The Master Key System in 28 Lessons ( Complete )

[E]: You Can Get Where You Want to Go Using The Science of Getting Rich

The Science of Getting Rich is an all time classic. It will transform the way you look at getting rich. This message is profound and millions have resonated with the teachings. The Science of Getting Rich By Wallace Wattles Unabridged with Commentary

[F]: You Can Get Where You Want to Go Using Hill‘s Think And Grow Rich Secrets

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill is the ultimate success classic, timeless, powerful and profound. This book changed my life. Once I read this book I was able to conceptualize a path toward achieving my goals, it inspired me to start a mastermind and helped me to understand auto suggestion and the subconsciousness.

It has changed the lives of millions of people. So many have claimed it as the master key to their success. Bob Proctor carries a copy everywhere he goes reading it on a daily basis. Napoleon Hill, most famous of all teachers of success spent a fortune and the better part of a lifetime of effort to produce the Law of Success philosophy that forms the basis of his books and that is so powerfully summarized and explained for the general public in this book.

In Think and Grow Rich, Hill draws on stories of Andrew Carnegie, Thomas Edison, Henry Ford, and other millionaires of his generation to illustrate his principles. This book will teach you the secrets that could bring you a fortune. It will show you not only what to do but how to do it.

Once you learn and apply the simple, basic techniques revealed here, you will have mastered the secret of true and lasting success. Money and material things are essential for freedom of body and mind, but there are some who will feel that the greatest of all riches can be evaluated only in terms of lasting friendships, loving family relationships, understanding between business associates, and introspective harmony which brings one true peace of mind!

All who read, understand, and apply this philosophy will be better prepared to attract and enjoy these spiritual values. BE PREPARED! When you expose yourself to the influence of this philosophy, you may experience a CHANGED LIFE which can help you negotiate your way through life with harmony and understanding and prepare you for the accumulation of abundant material riches.

PS make sure to listen in the first week if you do not want ads between chapters. Think And Grow Rich By Napoleon Hill (Unabridged Audiobook-

[G]: You Can Get Where You Want to Go with Affirmations

Listen to this every night before you go to bed! New “I Am Abundant, Rich and Wealthy” Money Affirmations for Success, Health & Wealth! Start listening to affirmations every day. They go straight to your subconscious mind. You will see how quickly it changes your life. “I AM ABUNDANT & WEALTHY” Money Affirmations For Success & Wealth

[H]: You Can Get Where You Want to Go Because these Ideas Work!

The author sent a copy of the manuscript to a friend of his for critique, who then returned the text with the inscription. It works! This judgment, born of experience, then gave the title to this small but valuable book. If you KNOW what you WANT, then you CAN HAVE it! It works! A concise, precise and effective program with rules, explanations and tips to improve your condition in life. It Works! The Famous Little Red Book that Makes your Dream Come True.

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Final Thoughts

It’s possible to make life changes and learn how to start over. Don’t become a person who lets life pass them by only to regret it when you’re retired or far into old age. Don’t let your life plateau and waste away in the daily grind for the next twenty years while wasting the potential you still have.

Tired of being held back by your limitations? It’s time to break free from them, and start living out your best days. Contact us now.

Wishing you prosperity and success,

Michael Kissinger or Sydney Reitenbach

Reitenbach-Kissinger Success Institute

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