Are You Looking for a Specific Person or Soulmate?
Have you been struggling to find love these past few months, or even years?
Many people we work with have experienced frustration after frustration when it comes to dating and love. They can’t find people on their level or who want the same thing as them and, when they do, for whatever reason they can’t make it work with these guys.
We’re here to tell you that it doesn’t have to be this way. The relationship you want is available to you and we’re going to teach and coach you how to manifest the love you desire.
These are the exact steps we used to manifest our marriage and how we manifest everything we want in life. If you choose to follow these steps, you will transform your love life forever.
It’s time to let go of your old story, the endless healing, and finally become one of those people who just attract great lovers easily and effortlessly.
It’s time to get absolutely clear on the love you want to manifest.
we see this all the time. You may be like, “Duh, I want a loving, fulfilling relationship,” but if you were pressed to list the attributes of the person you’re in this relationship with or the qualities of the relationship, you’d probably end up blurting out ambiguous, generic descriptors. And why is that? Because we are afraid to ask for too much.
We’ve either been told to temper our expectations – like by our parents when we were growing up, or by people who have said, “You’re too picky” when it comes to choosing a partner.
There are often deep-seated beliefs around self-worth as well that make us believe we’re not worthy of what we really want. That’s why, to date, you have gone out with people who are frankly not good enough for you and have been messed around by those types of people as well.
Or maybe that’s why you’re not even attempting to date – because you don’t believe the person you want is out there and, if they are, they certainly won’t choosing you.
[1]: Get CRYSTAL clear on what it is you want, what you absolutely won’t accept, what your ideal relationship looks like.
Is it marriage?
A long-term monogamous partnership?
Because when you know where you are going, you will also know the steps you need to take to get there. Maybe not all of them at the start, but you will certainly recognize when you are there – or not.
[2]. Eliminate limiting beliefs and other mental blocks keeping you from manifesting love.
When you are going through step 1, note down any limiting beliefs that arise. These are thoughts that limit what you think you can have.
Ask yourself, where does this belief come from? Has someone else been able to have this thing? Is it really true for me or have I experienced evidence of the opposite? What would my highest self want for me? What new belief can I have?
When we’re getting clear on what we want and forcing ourselves to ask for more from the Universe, this is when these limiting beliefs will show themselves.
But it’s just our ego trying to limit us, keep us small, and protect us from possible pain – even if what we’re experiencing now is causing us pain!
Besides our beliefs, we can have other feelings that block us from receiving love.
Fear is one of those feelings, though often there is a belief in that fear. The other blocks are typically shame – shame about our past choices, where we currently are in our life, or about who we are – and resentment.
Similarly to fear, shame needs to be addressed by journaling the origin and validity of these beliefs, combined with exercises to increase self-worth.
Resentment usually comes from holding on to past hurt and pain or being frustrated with where we are at in our love lives. For example, resentment towards an ex can be extremely draining and taint all future relationships.
Resentment towards the dating world, men, society at large – or any other external factor that may be the basis of your story for why you are single can also be detrimental.
To address resentment, you need to forgive – the person who hurt you as well as yourself – and be accepting of your current circumstances. It also helps to be accountable and ask, “What can I do differently in the future?” so that you can be empowered to create change.
[3]. Set an intention for the love you want to manifest.
In this step, it is time to declare to the Universe exactly what we want and to believe we already have it in our possession. You can write it out in your journal, write it on a card that you will carry around with you, or create a special ritual where you speak your intention to the full moon – whatever it is that has the most meaning for you and makes this goal significant for you.
We have to completely own what it is we want to have and create an unshakable belief that it is destined for us. And we mean unshakable.
What we have noticed with manifestation is that as soon as our faith falters we don’t get the results we want. That’s why it’s essential to embody the belief that what you want is already yours.
To help stay in alignment with what you want, we recommend two things.
First, don’t tell anyone what it is you are doing. As soon as you start letting others into your manifestation plans, they can’t help but try to sabotage your dreams with their dose of “reality.”
We don’t care if it feels like you are living in an alternate reality – you are. Your reality is where you get what you want, including the relationship you desire. If everyone else wants to waste their time talking about why things don’t happen for them or project that on to you and other people, that’s their problem.
But even the slightest dose of heterogeneous suggestion – that is ideas implanted in your subconscious mind by other people – and you may waver on your goals.
Second, spend time each day writing out what it is that you want and visualizing yourself already having it. Create a scene in your mind that represents you having exactly what it is you want.
Maybe it’s you standing at the altar or hanging out on the sofa, sharing popcorn with your significant other. Create a clear mental picture and regularly imagine yourself in it, feeling the feeling of you already having it.
[4]. Become a vibrational match for the relationship you want.
To attract your ideal relationship, you need to become the partner who is capable of having this relationship. They say that manifestation is not about so much as getting the thing, but the process of transforming into the person who can have the thing – whether that’s an amazing relationship, money, or a specific career.
Start by reviewing your list of attributes that you are looking for in your partner and cultivating them in yourself. If you want someone organized, healthy, honest, and reliable, how do you rate yourself on these qualities?
Next, make sure you are happily living your life right now. Do you need to make any adjustments – to your job, your health, and your home life for example?
The more fulfilled you are in your current life the more attractive you will be to your ideal partner. Unfortunately, most people work backward. They think when they get the relationship they want, they will feel fulfilled. But if you’re in a job you hate, take little time to enjoy life, and don’t have much gratitude for what you currently have, you will exude bitter energy that will either repel prospective partners or draw low-vibe men into your sphere.
Imagine your ideal person and ideal relationship. Who is the person in that relationship and how can you act more like them now?
In my case, when we visualized our highest, most attractive self, we were always smiling, like big smiling, just having the best time all the time.
And what were we like most of the time? Not frowning, but always concentrating because we were always worried. We knew if we didn’t shift this vibration of fear and worry, we would never be the person we imagined.
We had to give ourselves permission to be happy now. Not in the future when everything we envisaged manifested perfectly because we knew if we couldn’t shake that limited version of ourselves we could never attract the abundance and love we desired.
[5]. Take aligned action toward your manifestation.
OK, here comes the reality check: to meet your potential life partner, you need to actually put yourself out there. It’s so easy to say, “I’m manifesting love,” but if you never leave your sofa or bed, or put yourself in situations where you may meet a man, it’s going to make finding love – or love finding you – a hell of a lot harder.
You are not alone in thinking dating is a head fuck, trust me. But when you have embraced that there is NO OTHER OPTION than for you to have the love you want (in step 3), then who cares if a date doesn’t call you?
Instead, approach dating with an attitude of fun and curiosity – who will you meet? What will they be like? What fun things can we do together?
The lighter, more fun your attitude is the better your results will be. You won’t be anxious about fucking up on a date because you basically can’t fuck up what you are meant to have.
The other action you need to take is right action.
And by that we mean, doing the things that are aligned to what it is you want.
Think about the person you need to be to attract this relationship and do things this person would do. Does this person sleep with a person they barely know?
Do they get super trashed on dates? Do they cry when they don’t get a text from their date and text the person in a panic days later wondering what happened?
Hell no. And the more you can embody the person who effortlessly attracts the relationship they desires now the faster you can attract it. No more wasting time on unproductive thoughts or regretting your actions – you just stay focused on what you want.
[6]. Keep your vibe high and allow love to come to you.
Further to the points above, you can’t quit or back out of dating once you’re on this path. Instead, focus on making yourself feel as great as possible at all times.
Spend time on your passion projects, doing activities you enjoy, talk to uplifting people. Take daily scented baths. Whatever you need to do to feel your best.
Look after your body and mind as best you can because it’s essential when you are doing this work that you keep your head in the game. You can’t afford to have hangxiety or be operating on three hours of sleep.
This leads to impulsive action and poor decision making. You basically just want to pave a smooth path for love to come to you. You don’t want to chase it down and trap it.
The same applies to trying desperately to get someone to pay attention to you.
In our experience, the more obsessed we are with one specific person, the more we block out the real opportunities for love.
Abraham-Hicks talks about being general in our desires to stay in the “vortex” – that is the headspace where we are effortlessly attracting what we want.
General means focusing on attracting love or a long term relationship – not trying to win over a person from the accounts department or that one guy we liked on Bumble.
When we’re focused on trying to control how we get the love we desire and are only allowing one way of getting it, that’s when we’re out of the vortex. So we recommend only focusing on your bigger objective – finding lasting love – and letting the Universe take care of the details.
“If it’s meant for you, it will be.”
Live Long and Prosperously,
Reitenbach-Kissinger
Sydney and Michael
Text: 650-515-7545
Email: mjkkissinger@yahoo.com
PS. Every person on this planet is taking their initiation in love.
“A new commandment I give unto you, that ye love one another.” Ouspensky states, in “Tertium Organum,” that “love is a cosmic phenomenon,” and opens to people in the fourth dimensional world, “The World of the Wondrous.”
Real love is selfless and free from fear. It pours itself out upon the object of its affection, without demanding any return. Its joy is in the joy of giving. Love is God in manifestation, and the strongest magnetic force in the universe. Pure, unselfish love draws to itself its own; it does not need to seek or demand.
Scarcely anyone has the faintest conception of real love. People are selfish, tyrannical or fearful in their affections, thereby losing the thing they love.
Jealousy is the worst enemy of love, for the imagination runs riot, seeing the loved one attracted to another, and invariably these fears objectify if they are not neutralized.
For example: A woman came to us in deep distress. The man she loved had left her for other women, and said he never intended to marry her. She was torn with jealousy and resentment and said she hoped he would suffer as he had made her suffer; and added, “How could he leave me when I loved him so much?”
We replied, “You are not loving that man, you are hating him,” and added, “You can never receive what you have never given. Give a perfect love and you will receive a perfect love. Perfect yourself on this man. Give him a perfect, unselfish love, demanding nothing in return. Do not criticize or condemn, and bless him wherever his is.” She replied, “No, I won’t bless him unless I know where he is!” she said.
“Well,” we said, “that is not real love.”
What is real love to you?
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